Before my husband and I ever had children, the talk about Christmas has come up. In fact I believe one of our 1st real fights was over Santa. :) To do, or not to do…. why I wanted to and why he didn’t. It was one of those things that for years we just butted heads on…
We avoided the issue for years, until our oldest son Caleb was old enough to understand something was going on ;-) – besides a bunch of gifts under the tree. He would have random people come up to him asking “Soooo what is Santa bringing you?” - so we knew, we had to make a decision.
We ultimately decided not to do the traditional Santa route with our family. While I think its perfectly fun, imaginative and sweet... My husband just had a bad experience with it and really felt led to do things differently. So we have… and so far so good. Our boys know who Santa is, they also know that they are never to SPOIL it for anyone else… We’ve been very up front with them and have expressed how important Santa is for some families & how it is not their place to tell anyone he isn’t real. So far so good :)
Our oldest however, this year told us “I wish Santa was real, so we could put cookies out for him.”- I encouraged him to still do this, if he wanted too. I told him he is more than welcome to have fun and pretend all he wants….
This then led my husband into finding a resource in order to teach our children about the real Saint Nicholas… and where Santa really came from.
So this year, for the 1st time… my husband sat down and read the boys a story all about it… and in the story it talked about one of the things the real Saint Nicolas did… and how the children use to put their shoes out on Saint Nicholas Day… and in the morning they’d find a surprise. This surprise was typically money.
Our boys got to do this & along with it, they were also taught that on Saint Nicholas day they were to do something nice for someone else, but that it had to be a secret… so whoever they did something nice for, couldn’t know they did it.
You would not believe how excited our children were to do this!
It was just a perfect evidence for us that we did the right thing for our family. This will be something we continue for years… until our kids are to old to play along :) – and will add a little bit of magic and imagination to the holidays.
Tell International Delight what your favorite holiday tradition is for a chance to win a $200 Target gift card from BlogFrog.
Add some cheer to your coffee or baking this season with International Delight’s holiday flavors. Enjoy the taste of Peppermint Mocha, Pumpkin Pie Spice, White Chocolate Raspberry, Vanilla Spiced Rum or Gingerbread Latte and stir up a moment of sweet inspiration.
TellTeTeTell International Delight what your favorite holiday treat is for a chance to win a $200 Walmart Gift Card.
Capture the flavors of the holiday’s in every cup of coffee with International Delight creamers. Available in a variety of flavors, such as Cinnabon, Almond Joy and Pumpkin Spice, International Delight can make everyday feel like a holiday.
This is a sponsored conversation written by me on behalf of International Delight. The opinions expressed by me do not necessarily reflect the view of the International Delight Brand.