The other day I was at my friend’s house… and saw her 7 year old little girl sweeping the kitchen floor. She was doing a great job too! Even got the corners :) It reminded me how slack I had been on enforcing more chores with our boys… Ever since the move really. I guess maybe because I wanted it done a certain way & since this is such a nice home and not ours forever… I want it kept up really well. So I’ve been doing the brunt of the work as far as house hold chores go.
Obviously my boys are still young… they are however smart… and totally capable to do certain task. My expecting perfection is doing no one any good…
A few new chores I’ve recently added are.
Sweeping
Emptying the Dish Washer
(The boys IMO do not wash well enough with their hands :-\ – and since I cook most of our meals, I do rely on a dish washer right now… its an amazing blessing – since I am the sole washer otherwise. They can however EMPTY a dishwasher full of clean dishes.)
Add this to our normal few & I think we’re doing pretty good!
Clearing off the Table
Emptying the trash cans in all 3 bathrooms.
Taking recyclables out
Daily pick up of toys/clothes.
They put away their own laundry (I fold it as of now – placing it into baskets for each of them)
Making Beds
Now all this being said. Taite needs help sometimes with certain task. He did just turn 5. For him making a bed is really hard some times, esp. if he sleeps wildly :) – during those times I encourage Caleb to help.
Also Taite I do not trust with putting away glass cups or bowls. So we leave that to Caleb.
Sweeping also is really hard for Taite. I think its a height thing ;-) – he needs a shorter broom hah…
So Caleb as of now really does get more of the chores… but Taites catching up… and it really is all about training… something we have to put time into.
The other day Travis told me “you should teach Caleb to do that” – referring to something I was dreading… and I told him “It seems like such effort teach him some times… Id almost rather just do it.” He then said “Thats why its called training” :)
Its work.
But worth doing.
… and really is a good teaching tool.
Our boys as of now do not get rewarded for doing chores. One day we may pay allowance. For now, fresh baked cookies and breads from me is reward enough ;-) – at least I think so, HEHE. Not to mention TV privileges and ipad time. :-D


























