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Loose, Mother, 1st Day

This weekend was an interesting one. Although, it felt longer than normal. Maybe because we had anticipation going into it, of what was about to start.

Between all that though, we had a good weekend.

The sickness has seemed to leave our home, finally. This is the 1st time in weeks Owen doesnt seem to have green gunk coming out of his nose, and his diaper issues are clearing up. Yea…. didn’t blog about those, but really, there’s no need :) – most moms know how that goes. – Diapers btw come June I hope to rid our house of! until Oct of course ;-)

Taite at dinner on friday night bit into a piece of chicken (I think?) – and began to cry as if someone kicked him in the face. He told us something was jabbing him in the tooth. Travis looked, I looked, we couldn’t see anything… until we realized there was a hint of blood around the back rim of his front bottom tooth. We then gave it a wiggle. Sure enough, it was loose. Taite must have bit down on something hard, and the tooth was loose, so when he bit, it just really hurt. He literally cried for 10 minutes over this tooth. He’d stop, then would start back up. We’d ask “what is wrong?” – he would say “I just keep thinking about it and it makes me cry!” – there really was not much to do, except change the subject and hope he moved on quickly.

Since that friday, we’ve had to cut his food up, so he doesn’t “hurt himself” :) – But since that friday, the tears have stopped and now he just goes around showing everyone his loose tooth. Literally, up close and personally. Our poor neighbors son Noah has gotten a mouth full of Taite over the past 48 hours.

IMG_2194Sunday was very wet and rainy… but we managed making it to church :) – enjoying a great sermon, sitting with some old friends from my home church back in NC (I hadn’t seen them since Caleb was 2!) – They knew me though pre-kids, pre-marriage, pre-salvation even! I went to youth group with their son.

After church, we enjoyed a quick left over lunch ;-) – and then naps. Must admit, sunday naps are a tradition in our home and with rainy weather, it makes those times even more restful.

Travis cooked us dinner.

Marinated Chicken Kabobs w/ Zucchini and Onion. It was great!

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Despite the rain, we let the kids play outside – and over all the day felt very calm.

It was nothing fancy… but there really is no need for much more.

This morning marks the 1st day of a very new and different life for us. Travis starts his training for his new job… He is excited – and nervous :) – Because he is in the training process, his days will be shorter right now. He will work from like 8am-3pm until July – to me its as if God knew I needed “time” to adjust to being a SAHM again of 3 busy little boys ;-) – and having to get use to not having a husband around 24-7 again. Travis getting home around 3:30 or 4, will be a lot easier to adjust to, than 5:30 or 6.

Come July he will begin working 8-5 – until he finishes his training – which will take until Christmas or so.

The morning has gone well today.

Although I hate getting up before 7 :)

6:30am I heard the boys get up… I specifically told them to stay in bed until 7… they were only allowed up to go pee.

But lights were to remain off. My boys btw, will sometimes get up as early as 6am – even if they go to bed at 10! It does not matter what time they make it to bed, they are up early.

IMG_2909I can tell it is going to take some retraining in this area. With Travis being home, we got out of that routine – and our boys had a lot more freedom to just go downstairs, cut PBS on and fix themselves their own breakfast. It was “easy” for us – and since we had “all day” together – it didn’t seem like a real high priority to keep them to much of a routine.

With Travis gone now, that is going to change.

I joked with the kids “Mama’s Back” :)

I woke up feeling rested regardless of the 6:30am wake up call… went downstairs and fixed myself a half a blue berry bagel – enjoyed it alone on the sofa, as I read some scripture and just prayed the day would go as smooth as possible.

I really just desire to be calm in my spirit when the day gets hard.

At 7am – once the older two came down.

I fixed them some whole grain pancakes – milk and OJ… then after 15 min. of peaceful talking :) – I discover Taite wet his bed (after I just made it the night before) – and that the dish washer had yet to be started from yesterday.

So before even 7:30am – I have a full load of laundry to wash, dry and put away… as well as a full load of dishes to get washed and put away as well.

It wasn’t exactly the routine I was hoping for this morning. I am thankful I remained peaceful throughout the discoveries… and we finished up breakfast happily.

I was able to finish cleaning the kitchen, starting the wash and even got the boys school totally prepped… all the while Owen still slept, which is a huge blessing! and now im playing catch up on blog work, while the boys play a game on the ipad. Id rather them sit quietly downstairs – than to come up stairs doing chores before school and risking Owen waking :) – hopefully by 9am though we can start school.

So here is to a different start to our lives :)

An exciting, scary, yet one we know is good start.

To a week filled with obligations that I will now fill on my own again… without a lending hand from a husband.

Here is to happy hearts and a soft answer when the times aren’t so peaceful.

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I’m so far from the perfect mom… but I really desire to try hard to be the best I can for my children. Like our Associate Pastor spoke on yesterday… I really hope when I am old and gone, my children can speak words of praise like he did yesterday morning about his mother.


“Charm is deceitful, and beauty is passing,
but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.”

Proverbs 31:30

Hands On

We have a lot of good hands on activity in our house hold – well most of the times its good, boy fun… with few injuries :) – This use to make me super nervous, esp. when Taite was only 2… however, its become something I have had to grow use too with all boys. My husband encourages wrestling.

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I suppose that day, I was encouraging it too by taking pictures of them :)
& don’t let this photo fool you. Taite often is the one on top. He may be 2 years younger than Caleb, but he can hold his own.

Owen even gets in on this… although we have talk to the boys, and just tell them to let him win and sit on them a few times, haha…

Butt in the Face

Our family loves to bike ride. While our neighborhood isnt the best for it – its extremely hilly. We do however have a small area around our home, that is bike-safe :) – and our boys enjoy it daily.


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Even little Owen as you can tell, LOVES IT.

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He will come to us with his helmet saying “bike” repeatedly.

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Travis almost always gives in :)

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& really does have fun with it.

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To much fun sometimes :)

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Once Travis goes back to work Monday, I may have him switch the baby bike seat back onto my bike. Although riding it 4 mo. pregnant is getting harder. I find if I go up hill with the bike, it really pulls on my lower abdominal muscles. Which normally would be good, but when you are on your 4th pregnancy, I am finding any sort of PULLING in those areas, makes for an uncomfortable day. I will write more on the pregnancy “tidbits” later today – when I post this weeks bump photo.

For those curious on how our boys learned to ride. We taught them at the high school track in our former NC town. It was nice and flat – and the pavement was that soft material used on most tracks, so if the boys fell, it wasnt to hard on them. Taite was 4 when he learned and Caleb 6. It took probably about 1 hour to teach them – and we had moments where they wanted to give up… but we got it! :) I would just suggest having a SMALLER bike, that is easier for them to balance with if they begin to fall. Im so glad we taught them though and pushed it, because they really do love bike riding, A LOT.

& for fun, here are a few flash back photos of the boys pre-biking without training wheels.


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Uneventful, not totally

While our trip has gone well… it has not been without its unfortunate events.

One of those being this….

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Thankfully this flat happened after arriving at my friend Shannon’s. We had no clue it was even flat, until outside with the kids – and her neighbor noticed it. We were thankful for the timing. Travis was able to pump it up with our emergency pump and then head to SAMS. Where we had purchased the tires. They fixed it free of charge.

IMG_2678Another thing we have faced is Owen being slightly uneasy about sleeping in other houses. He has never traveled well in regards to this… but this trip for some reason he has been extra clingy at night.

Every single night I would have to lay down with him to get him to sleep. Which was fine… just time consuming. Instead of staying up late playing games with friends or family – I would be in bed waiting for him to fall asleep. Resulting in myself falling asleep too 95% of the time :).

I don’t really consider it bad though. Owen’s time as the baby is quickly coming to an end. I don’t mind it.

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& of course no trip is complete without sick kids. Our two oldest seemed to have runny noses for some time – even before we came. It just got worse. Now I’m battling a stuffy nose as well as Owen. Although mine feels more like allergies than anything. Thankfully it has not affected the boys much at all.

Until last night.

Caleb came into our bedroom at my moms at 1am – and broke the news to us that Taite threw up. My immediate reaction to throw up is “a stomach bug…” – but this we weren’t so sure at the moment. Taite is hacking up a lot of flem… A very raspy cough – that we think is irritating his throat. He had no fever throughout this or prior. He threw up twice last night. The 1st time we didn’t witness obviously but Taite told us he was hiccuping or something when it happened and then the time we saw it happen, he coughed and then bleh it was let loose.

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Taite all day seemed totally fine… That photo above was taken at like 5pm yesterday.

Can I just say one thing I have not grown use to as a mother, is dealing with throw up and poop.
I can handle a contained poopie diaper… but anything beyond that, is so hard for me.

Throw up is even worse.

The smell…
The look…
& the constant thought of that spreading through an entire house hold, seriously almost paralyzes me in fear. I think about it for days waiting it out. Which is why at 2:11am I was up just waiting to see if it “happens” again…

Taite zonked out after that 2nd episode and this morning seems totally fine.

I do believe it was associated to his coughing. Now lets hope the other two don’t have the same thing happen… since both sound pretty raspy this morning as well. The last thing I want is to shovel up puke in our mini van on a 5 hour trip back to GA.

On the road again :)

Soooo we’re on the road again.
Totally last minute trip (although we had it in mind – just not so soon) – Since Travis will start working May 14th – we knew this would be our last opt. to travel this year… once summer comes and he is in full swing with training – I just don’t think leaving will be an option for some time. Not to mention with the birth of the baby this fall… leaving after that doesnt really sound appealing either – since ill be tending to a newborn and 3 other kids. People can come see us then ;-)

So we are off to visit family and friends for the next 10 days or so.


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We have lots of stops to make and a busy schedule… heres hoping we can do it and stay sane :) – relaxed and just enjoy the time away. So far things are well… the trip went well. As well as it can with 3 boys asking “are we there yet” 15x every 30 minutes hah… well at least 1 of those boys was.

If im scarce from the blog through the weekend its due to no internet signal at Travis’ dads. I hope to post an update by monday though :) – enjoy the weekend!